It is complicated and challenging enough to think about retirement for yourself. It is even more challenging for couples to work through the many complex retirement needs that are unique to living with a spouse or partner. To have a successful retirement, each person in the relationship needs to be able to
• Plan thoughtfully
• Communicate clearly
• Compromise
• Cooperate
• Act with understanding
• Empathize
• Still maintain autonomy in a relationship.
What defines success in retirement for you may not be the same for your spouse or partner. How will you handle the challenges of this reality as you look forward to slowing down and taking time to explore what will bring you purpose, meaning and satisfaction?
Take time to consider what your partner may be looking for:
• Variety
• Intellectual stimulation
• Travel
• Physical activities
• Hobbies
• Social stimulation
Your marriage or relationship is ready for retirement when you find a common thread to weave together your different interests, allowing the best of time together and time apart.